May 21, 2025
Cottage gardens are often misunderstood. People imagine a tangle of flowers and overgrown borders, but in reality, the best examples are shaped by restraint, rhythm, and structure. They’re vibrant, yes—but also considered.
In villages like Ascott-under-Wychwood and Minster Lovell, we’ve worked on cottage gardens that feel abundant yet effortless. The trick is knowing where to relax and where to keep control.
Here’s how to build a garden that looks after itself more than you might expect.
Cottage gardens rely on perennials and self-seeders that come back year after year. These aren’t high-maintenance prima donnas. They’re resilient, beautiful, and dependable.
Go for plants like:
These are the sorts of plants we routinely recommend in our garden planning consultations because they do the job without fuss.
If you’re building out your borders, refer to our guide:
What to Plant Each Month for a Beautiful Garden All Year Round.
Let the plants be free, but the structure needs to do its job.
In Burford and Great Tew, we’ve seen how small touches of formality can balance the looseness of a cottage-style planting.
If you need help shaping hedges or keeping those edges in line, our
Regular Gardening
service takes care of that without overdoing it.
This is a common mistake. Cramming every square inch with colour leads to mess, not abundance. Think in layers. Leave breathing room. Let things reseed naturally in patches, not across the whole space.
We recently thinned a border in Leafield that had gone too far—and within a season, the entire space looked calmer and far more in keeping with the house behind it.
A thick mulch in spring keeps weeds down and moisture in. It’s the simplest way to cut down on maintenance while improving plant health. Choose composted bark or well-rotted compost for a clean look.
This one principle can carry an entire garden: let the centre bloom, but keep the edges sharp. People don’t notice a bit of chaos in the middle when the paths are clear and the lawn is cut.
One of the most elegant things about a cottage garden is how it shifts through the year. Snowdrops, then tulips, then aquilegia, then geranium, then phlox and penstemon. Always something happening, but never everything at once.
In our recent blog,
How to Bring Bees and Butterflies into Your Garden,
we explored how seasonal planting supports wildlife—this same approach also supports flow and rhythm in a cottage space.
A good cottage garden doesn’t demand constant intervention. It grows with time, and rewards a light touch.
If you want help starting one—or if yours has got away from you and needs pulling back—
get in touch.
We’ll bring it back to balance.
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